Articles
Articles can be found on Lustery covering relationships, kink, sex, and queer and trans communities.
By Jo Goforth
“I am in all black, my hands dirty from dust, my shoulder’s aching from being lifted above my head. This sixteen year old kid is being taught how to tie a cable to a grid in a way that holds, but is easy to undo. A decade later, a few genders later, a few sexualities later, and a hell of a lot more experience, I decided to take a break from theater and learn something new. Instead of staying inside black boxes, I took a friend’s advice and started volunteering on tall ships.”
By Jo Goforth
“But there is something particularly magical about people who have dedicated love to each other despite distance. Both have to agree that space is as much a part of their relationship as physical togetherness is, whether that space is temporary or long term.”
By Jo Goforth
“Consent, as always, is key. While many don’t understand consenting to pain, those of us who do gain access to a particular kind of intimacy. The inherent risk of pain heightens the expecations between all parties, demanding a unique level of focus. Every sound and sight must be given proper attention by the sadist. There shouldn’t be any distractions. With how chaotic the world is, being able to shut off everything but what is directly in front of you provides a rich respite."
Other Pieces
Transformation of the Sex Party
A report and exploration of the the many varieties of sex party setups.
A reflection on the beauty of kinesthetic transformation found in T4T intimacy.